Where should we stay in Aruba with a toddler?

We loved Aruba when we went for our honeymoon and now we would like to return with our 3-year-old. He is generally content and well-behaved, but I would like to stay somewhere fairly upscale yet child-friendly. A place with a kiddie-pool that has some small slides, nicely appointed rooms with good linens and marble baths, great restaurants that are also kid-friendly but don't dumb down the food... Any recommendations?