How can you say you "Love" someone & put conditions on their life?

I do not believe this. I believe all paths lead to the same end- no matter what the beliefs of a said person are. Love the only universal language there is. True love is not chaining- rather it is liberating. The will of another person to care and tend to another to the best of their ability is true love. Every human however does not achieve the same magnititude of love. I do not believe this comes at a price though to the afterlife, rather it hurts us in the present and the now. I don't believe in a Hell that punishes human beings. However, not loving is quite destuctive to a human being and comes at one's own cost.